Sunday, February 01, 2009

1 Month Old

I can't believe how fast the past 5 weeks have gone. It seems like the days go by slowly, but the weeks go by quickly. I can't believe it's Sunday again already. We eased into "normal" life. My mom left in the middle of January, making it just the FOUR of us......but Daniel was taking vacation, so he was around for most of the next two weeks. The past few weeks have really been my first taste of managing Joshua and Brielle alone. It's a lot of work having two under two, but actually so far it's been easier than I expected (maybe I was fearing the worst). But, it's helped that both have been sleeping well and I've tried to focus only on the most basic tasks (keeping us all fed, clean, happy, and rested) and count anything else that gets done as bonus (cleaning, UF work, blogging...) But sometimes, it's hard for this task-oriented mama to not worry about the rest of my 'To Do' list! Josh has had to pick up some of the slack and start brushing his own teeth and even cooking! :)

There's really not too much news to tell about Brielle - She's a cutie-pie, so I'll just let the pictures do most of the talking. She's continuing to eat, sleep, and poop well. That's about all we can ask of her. Each morning Dan and I say, "Thank You, God, for another good night." And wait to see what that day holds. We are so glad she came to be in our family though and are falling more in love with her every day. We haven't had too many outings yet since we are trying to keep her from being exposed to all the cold and flu viruses that are going around and because I haven't quite been adventurous enough to take them both out alone much yet. We have had some play dates with friends recently and that's been fun, especially for mom! It's nice to have a two-way conversation every once and a while. Josh does speak now - his first and only word - "BAH" (ball).In other Joshua news, he's found his belly button and likes to show it off and found out that daddy's nose "honks" if you squeeze it. He also learned to give zerberts (raspberries) - pretty funny! For the past few months he hasn't been that good about eating his vegetables, but we've had some breakthroughs this month - grilled veggies, veggies in soup, oven roasted broccoli, stir fried veggies - we'd mostly been trying to give him the veggies like we eat them - just steamed and unseasoned - once we thought about it, we could understand why he was choosing the other dishes instead - he loves flavored, spicy foods - so by adding lots of garlic and some six pepper seasoning, we're getting more of "the good stuff" in him! Yay! Josh continues to be a wonderful big brother and has endless kisses for his Sissy - so sweet! And, we're so grateful he hasn't shown any signs of jealousy yet!

Although things are going well in general, that's not to say there aren't moments where it seems like I'm going to go crazy - Brielle agrees!For more pictures click on the links below:
Brielle's Arrival and New Years
January

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Our Christmas - Brielle's Birthday

Even though my due date wasn't until Dec 28th, we'd been hesitant to make plans for the few weeks prior to Christmas, since our Baby Girl could arrive at anytime. I'd told myself there was no real reason to think she'd come early, but I found out as time passed I was subconsciously counting on it. Probably because Joshua was 2 weeks early and in my last few doctors appointments they had been emphasizing that it could be anytime and that we should get to the hospital as soon as possible since this was my second baby and the first came quickly. Waiting for baby makes for some long days, so we finally went ahead and made some plans for Christmas celebrations...Christmas Eve pannekuchen breakfast, oysters and chili with the Murphys for dinner, Christmas Eve church service, Christmas morning Pillsbury cinnamon rolls and gifts, Christmas Day Dinner at the Murphys...

Christmas Eve Breakfast
Josh and Daddy lovin' some bacon!

Manning the grill! He eats some steamed and some raw - always on a saltine with Crystal hot sauce!

Dan actually likes the oysters. I usually eat one, just to participate. Josh had oyster crackers!

Since we needed to stay near home this Christmas, we tried to incorporate some of our family traditions. My family has chili and oyster stew on Christmas Eve, so for our Florida version, we had fresh oysters and sweated through our chili! I spent the morning trying to "labor myself into labor"...I wanted to give the house one more good cleaning before the baby arrived, so I mopped, vacuumed, cleaned bathrooms, etc. I figured the more active I was, maybe the better chance of the baby coming...or maybe it was the oysters that got things moving along! Dan says that Brielle decided, "If these oysters are in here, I'm getting out!"

We joked as we walked into the Christmas Eve church service about what we should do if I went into labor during it, but it wasn't quite time yet. We went to bed and got a good nights sleep until I woke up at 5am with a contraction that felt "different" then the ones I'd been having for the past few weeks. I started timing them and they were about 7 minutes apart, so I decided to wake up Daniel and at least get all of our stuff packed so we'd be ready to go if this was real. The contractions continued regularly, so around 6am, we called the doctor who said to go ahead and come to the hospital. I called Anissa, who was on call for Joshua duty, and told her it was time. So, she came over until Josh woke up and then he spent the next two days with Brett, Anissa & Asher.

As we drove to the hospital I started having doubts about whether I was truly in labor and if I was still having contractions or not, so we decided to walk on the beach near the hospital for a little bit and see what happened. It was kind of surreal to see other people out on the beach, saying "Merry Christmas" to us and to think, "We're about to have a baby...but they don't know...and it's Christmas...weird!"

Around 7am, we headed to the hospital. They admitted me, but since I wasn't going to get an epidural, I didn't have to stay in the bed the whole time. Daniel and I went out and walked around the parking lot for a while. Dr. Morgan came in at noon and broke my water. That definitely got things moving along. After an agonizing hour (which seemed MUCH longer at the time), Brielle Joy was born at 1:18pm.
The umbilical cord got wrapped around her neck and caused some blood vessels to burst in her face, so she looked a little blue for the first few days, but praise God, there were no other complications and shouldn't be any lasting effects from the cord. It's kind of shocking to all of the sudden meet your precious child, even though you've had 9 months to prepare for it. A very surreal few moments.

Daniel's family was on their way home from Christmas in Orlando and was able to stop by to meet Brielle when she was only about 4 hours old. Brielle is blessed with lots of loving family - 4 grandparents, LOTS of aunts and uncles (9 - I guess), and 4 cousins!

Later on that evening, Brett and Anissa brought Josh to meet his little sister for the first time. We weren't sure what he would think, but he's in LOVE with her. The first real kiss he gave was to Brielle - so sweet! So far he's still enamored with her, so hopefully that will last.

We were so grateful that Brett and Anissa offered to watch Josh for us...and to bring us a yummy Christmas dinner in the hospital. It was comforting to know Joshua was in good hands and with someone familiar. Thank you so much, Brett, Anissa & Asher. They said he did great at their house...didn't even seem to miss us!

Asher and Josh playing! (Asher is 3 months younger than Josh and will be getting a baby brother in March!)

My parents arrived on Dec 27th, just in time for Grandma to come and help us get Brielle dressed in her coming home outfit! It was great to have them here to help for the first couple weeks of adjustment. Big thanks for everything, Mom & Dad!


Here we are arriving at home!

Catch up from Pre-Brielle

Just a little bit of catchup from before the Christmas craziness!

Joshua really enjoys cooking!

The video is Joshua trying out his new shoes! He usually wears Robeez type slipper shoes, but they get soggy when it's damp outside, so I bought him some shoes with rubber soles. The first time I put them on him he kept pulling up his legs when I tried to set him down and refused to put his feet on the floor. This time he stood, but wouldn't walk...he finally got the hang of it a few attempts later!

Saturday, January 03, 2009

Big Catch



Christmas Gift

Brielle Joy
December 25 1:18pm
7 lbs 12 oz, 20 3/4 in